At the opening, Julia and Matt talk over dinner about whether they’d want to know their futures. How did that early scene shape your expectations for the story?
Julia’s father and aunt hide the truth about her mother’s illness to “protect” her. Do you see their choices as loving, controlling, or both? What might a better path have looked like?
When Julia returns to Baltimore and revisits places tied to her mother’s decline, how do her experiences there affect her sense of herself and her fears about the future? How do you feel about the way she copes with this?
After Julia learns more about her extended family, her understanding of her history and identity shifts. How does this new knowledge change the way she sees herself and her choices?
How did you react to the way Julia starts keeping her own secrets, especially when she worries that if she is too open Matt will strongly oppose her choices and she may be risking her career at school?
As Julia faces decisions about testing and possible future children, many factors—emotional, practical, moral—weigh on her. Which of those would matter most to you in a similar situation?
Julia and Matt both believe they’re acting out of love and responsibility, even when they strongly disagree with one another. Did you find yourself siding more with one of them, or did your sympathies shift as the story went on?
Family, friends, and professionals sometimes offer strong opinions about what Julia should do. Where do you think the line falls between genuine support and pressure in a situation like this?
A central thread in the novel is how we live with the idea of fate—what might happen to us and what we can’t fully control. Did the story spark any thoughts or questions for you about your own destiny, or about how much control you feel you really have over your life?
After reading the novel, do you feel more drawn to seeking certainty about your future or to deciding to live with uncertainty? In particular, has the story affected your thoughts about pursuing genetic testing for yourself, your children, or your future children?